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Lounge: The Kick-Off
Welcome to our very first discussion thread in The Lounge! š
Starting these things can feel a bit like being the first on the dance floor ā a little awkward, a little vulnerable. But someoneās gotta kick things off! So here I am. Iām doing my best shimmy and hoping youāll join me.
Kidding aside, this space only works if we build it together. And Iām hoping (begging? Iām not above begging) that youāll jump in. Itās your voice and your energy that will make The Lounge the supportive, fun, and friendly community itās meant to be.
Also, since weāre just kicking things off, this thread is open to all readers. But soon, discussion posts like this will be exclusive to paid subscribers (aka LOUNGERS). If you havenāt yet upgraded, take advantage of the launch special rates (until Jan 31st) and claim your spot in the fun!
Okay, housekeeping over. Letās dive into our first chat.
Pretty sure youāve heard about the beginnerās mindset. Embracing that mindset can unlock so much for us, especially in midlife.
Hereās what I love about being a beginner:
š¤¦āāļø Learning resilience and laughing at ourselves: Beginners mess up. Thatās part of the fun ā and the growth.
š§ Waking up our brains: Tackling new challenges gives our minds a workout, keeping things sharp while stretching our comfort zone.
š¤ Finding connection in unexpected places: From shared laughs in a dance class to bonding over a new hobby, starting fresh can bring us closer to others.
š Rethinking what it means to grow older: Midlife isnāt the closing chapter; itās the perfect time to write something new.
So hereās todayās chat prompt:
š Whatās something youād love to dive into as a total newbie, no matter how big or small?




Start practicing piano again, and, find a cellist to learn the Rachmaninoff Cello Sonata together :)
I'd love to take some math courses at the local community college. Starting from when I was in junior high school math was a constant challenge for me with many nights spent crying over my homework. I had to use a lot of math in my professional career and found that if I took it one step at a time, it wasn't so scary -- and in fact, I liked the logic of it. I'd like to "re-do" my relationship to math.