Welcome to our very first discussion thread in The Lounge! 💃
Starting these things can feel a bit like being the first on the dance floor — a little awkward, a little vulnerable. But someone’s gotta kick things off! So here I am. I’m doing my best shimmy and hoping you’ll join me.
Kidding aside, this space only works if we build it together. And I’m hoping (begging? I’m not above begging) that you’ll jump in. It’s your voice and your energy that will make The Lounge the supportive, fun, and friendly community it’s meant to be.
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Okay, housekeeping over. Let’s dive into our first chat.
Pretty sure you’ve heard about the beginner’s mindset. Embracing that mindset can unlock so much for us, especially in midlife.
Here’s what I love about being a beginner:
🤦♀️ Learning resilience and laughing at ourselves: Beginners mess up. That’s part of the fun — and the growth.
🧠 Waking up our brains: Tackling new challenges gives our minds a workout, keeping things sharp while stretching our comfort zone.
🤝 Finding connection in unexpected places: From shared laughs in a dance class to bonding over a new hobby, starting fresh can bring us closer to others.
📖 Rethinking what it means to grow older: Midlife isn’t the closing chapter; it’s the perfect time to write something new.
So here’s today’s chat prompt:
📌 What’s something you’d love to dive into as a total newbie, no matter how big or small?
Start practicing piano again, and, find a cellist to learn the Rachmaninoff Cello Sonata together :)
I'd love to take some math courses at the local community college. Starting from when I was in junior high school math was a constant challenge for me with many nights spent crying over my homework. I had to use a lot of math in my professional career and found that if I took it one step at a time, it wasn't so scary -- and in fact, I liked the logic of it. I'd like to "re-do" my relationship to math.